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What should you consider before going through a divorce?

On Behalf of | Aug 23, 2021 | Divorce

Before you get a divorce, there are many things you should think about and do. Deciding to divorce, and bringing it up to your spouse, may be a nuclear option, so you don’t want to bring it up unless you’re positive that it’s what you want.

Before you file for divorce, there are five things you should do. Here is what you need to do before you pull the plug on your marriage.

  1. Know that you want to get a divorce

It may sound obvious, but it’s important for you to be sure that you want to get a divorce. If you bring it up, it may end your marriage even if you would have later changed your mind. It could be devastating to your spouse, or they could be relieved that you finally brought it up.

  1. Think about your custody goals

The next thing to consider is your custody goals. How often would you like to see your children, and do you have supporting evidence that you’re a good influence on them? You’ll need this if you end up in court.

  1. Consider which attorney you’d like to work with

Before you even mention a divorce to your spouse, talk to your attorney first. Choose an attorney with whom you feel comfortable so that you know that they’ll be there for you and help you handle whatever happens next.

  1. Print off your financial documents

Next, print off your financial statements before you bring up the divorce. It may get harder to access documents if you don’t get copies of them now, so put together a portfolio of information in advance.

  1. Develop your support network

Finally, develop your support network. This may include family and friends, your therapist and your attorney. A good team can make all the difference as you work to resolve your divorce in the future.

Doing these five things will help you get through your divorce more easily. That way, you can look forward to the future knowing that you have all of the right information ready for your case and court.